Moon in Virgo
The mind settles by putting something in order, usually something small.
The Moon is the sign that matters most here
Ask a Western astrologer for your sign and they answer with the Sun. Ask an Indian astrologer and they answer with the Moon, because in jyotish the Moon carries the mind: how you take things in, how you settle, what you need to feel safe. It is also read in the sidereal zodiac rather than the seasonal one, and the two have drifted about 24 degrees apart.
The practical consequence is that roughly four people in five get a different Moon sign here than in a Western chart. If you were told your Moon was in Libra, Virgo is the sign directly before it, and this is the reading jyotish would actually use.
What a Virgo Moon is like
A Mercury-ruled earth Moon copes through usefulness. A Virgo Moon under stress cleans, lists, fixes, and serves, and that is not avoidance so much as the actual mechanism by which it regulates. Feelings get processed as problems to be solved.
Your Moon is in Virgo, which means your feelings get sorted, named, and put to work. For you, taking care of someone is a practical act: the meal made, the problem solved, the detail remembered.
How it settles, and how it strains
What settles it. A completed task and a tidy edge. Being useful to a specific person works better than rest.
Where it strains. The critical eye turns inward, and the standard becomes something no one could meet.
The birth stars inside Virgo
A sign is 30 degrees, and a nakshatra is 13 degrees 20 minutes, so Virgo holds one whole birth star and shares the rest at its edges. Your nakshatra refines this reading considerably: two people with the Moon in Virgo can be very unalike if their birth stars differ.
Sidereal positions use the Lahiri ayanamsa, the Indian government standard. The Moon crosses a sign in roughly two and a half days, so a date alone usually settles it, but a birth time removes any doubt.